If you’ve followed my content for any amount of time, you know what I preach when it comes to dead bedrooms and broken marriages. You fight for your marriage until it becomes clear it isn’t worth fighting for anymore. And for some of you, that time came. You tried everything. You leveled up your mindset, your fitness, your confidence. You became a man of value. But she still wouldn’t get on board. Or worse, she became toxic. She pushed you away. She sabotaged intimacy and connection until the relationship crumbled completely.
And so you made the decision no man ever wants to make: you got out.
Maybe she left. Maybe you did. Maybe it was mutual. Regardless, the marriage — or long-term relationship — is now over. And now, you’re here. Single. Over 30. And no matter how much you tell yourself you should move on... part of you still thinks about her. Part of you still wonders, “Could I have gotten her back? Could I still get her back?”
Brother, if this is where you’re at right now — stuck between knowing you need to move on and secretly hoping she comes crawling back — you’re exactly who I want to talk to today.
Because here’s the truth you need to hear: moving on isn’t optional anymore. It’s your only path forward. And lucky for you, I created a brand new resource dedicated 100% to this part of your journey: Get Over Your Ex.
But before you head there, let’s talk about why moving on is so damn hard, and why you need to commit to it starting today.
Why You Still Think About Her (Even If You Know Better)
It’s easy to beat yourself up. You tell yourself you shouldn’t care. She didn’t value you. She didn’t respect you. She left you out in the cold when you needed her most. But despite all that logic, you still find yourself fantasizing about the “what ifs.”
What if she woke up one day and realized she made a mistake?
What if she reached out?
What if you could just say the right thing and make her fall for you again?
This obsession isn’t love. It’s addiction.
You’re addicted to the comfort of the old dynamic, even if it was dysfunctional. You’re addicted to the validation of being chosen, even though she stopped choosing you long ago.
And worst of all, you’re addicted to the hope that you can fix what’s broken — because as men, we are wired to fix things.
But brother, this isn’t something you can fix anymore.
You couldn’t negotiate desire when you were married. You can’t now that you’re apart. And the sooner you accept that, the sooner you can begin your healing.
The Real Reason Moving On Feels Impossible
Part of the reason moving on feels so brutal is because leaving a toxic or dead relationship doesn’t feel like a win.
Sure, you know logically that you had to leave. You know the marriage wasn’t healthy. You know she stopped respecting you.
But deep down, you still feel like you failed. And men don’t process failure very well.
You invested years into this. Maybe even decades. You sacrificed, provided, and did everything you thought was “right.” And she still left. Or you still had to walk away.
That can break a man.
But I’m here to tell you, it doesn’t have to. Walking away — especially when staying would mean continuing to lose yourself — is not failure.
It’s leadership. It’s strength. It’s masculinity.
Choosing to leave what no longer serves you is the most alpha thing you can do. But embracing that mindset takes work.
That’s why I created Get Over Your Ex. Because I know moving on isn’t as easy as deleting her number or going no-contact. It’s a process. A battle. And if you’re serious about winning it, you need guidance.
Why Hoping She’ll Come Back Is Making You Weak
Some of you reading this right now don’t actually want her back — you want the version of her you fell for years ago.
You want the soft, feminine, loving woman who looked at you like you hung the moon. You want the girl who couldn’t keep her hands off you.
But that woman is gone.
Even if she came back tomorrow, she wouldn’t be the same. And neither would you.
The harsh reality is that you can’t revive that past dynamic. All you can do now is focus on becoming the man who no longer needs her — or anyone — for validation.
Because men who chase, who pine, and who obsess? They become weaker every day.
Men who walk away and focus on themselves? They become stronger. And the stronger you become, the less you even care about her or what she’s doing.
When you stop chasing and start leading, women follow. That’s the paradox. But that’s only unlocked when you commit to truly moving on.
Your Next Chapter Starts at Get Over Your Ex
If this is resonating with you — if you’re tired of sitting around, replaying the past, and hoping for a miracle — then now is the time to act.
I created Get Over Your Ex for guys like YOU. Not for the guys still simping and begging. Not for guys still hoping she sees the light.
For MEN. Men who know it’s over. Men who know they deserve better. Men who are ready to build a new life where THEY are the prize.
On this new blog, I’ll be sharing regular articles, videos, and resources to help you:
Stop obsessing about your ex
Rebuild your identity as a high-value man
Reconnect with your masculine mission
And ultimately, move on in a way that makes your old life — and her — irrelevant.
This isn’t about getting her back anymore. This is about getting YOU back.
So if you’re ready to stop wondering, start acting, and claim your power back, head over to Get Over Your Ex right now and make today the day everything changes.
Your new life doesn’t start when she reaches out.
It starts when you finally stop giving a damn.
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