If you're a married man over 35 and your sex life is more silent than your group text with high school friends, you already know something's not right. Maybe you’ve done the books. Tried being the nice guy. Listened to the therapists. Watched YouTube videos with relationship advice from people who’ve never been in your shoes. And yet, every night feels like Groundhog Day—with a side of polite rejection.
If that’s where you’re at, let me welcome you to a place that might change everything: my podcast, Come On, Man.
This isn't just some talk show. Come On, Man is a tactical, no-BS resource built specifically for men like you. I started it with one mission—help men like us stop living like ghosts in our own homes and start reclaiming the power, polarity, and intimacy we once had (or never built properly in the first place).
The podcast airs every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday LIVE at 10am Eastern on YouTube. If you can’t make the livestreams, catch every episode on Spotify and Apple Podcasts.
And here’s what’s even more badass—Come On, Man has made three of Million Podcasts' most competitive lists:
- #14 out of the Top 50 Alpha Male Podcasts
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of the Top 100 Masculinity Podcasts
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of the Top 100 Motivational Podcasts for Men
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So let’s get into why this matters for you—and how it just might be the spark your marriage needs.
Dead Bedroom Mondays: What No One’s Telling You About Intimacy Loss
Every Monday, we dive into the real root of dead bedroom situations. Not the Hallmark, pastel-therapy explanation—but the truth.
The truth is, most guys don't fall into a dead bedroom because of one big moment. It happens slowly. You started doing more “nice” things. You backed off sexually because she was tired. You communicated more. You read books about vulnerability.
And then one day, she stopped kissing you back.
You didn’t do anything “wrong.” You were just playing by a rulebook that doesn’t apply to the game you're in.
Come On, Man gives you the updated rulebook—the one no one gave you at the altar. It’s not about manipulating her, it’s about leading yourself back into your masculine polarity. On Dead Bedroom Mondays, I teach you exactly how.
We talk about things like:
- Why trying to talk about the problem usually makes it
worse
- How to use
masculine leadership to reframe the bedroom dynamic
- Tactical
approaches to touch, communication, and tension
- And yes—how to get her to want you again, without begging or chasing
If you're serious about turning things around, I break it all down in my book, Get Her To F*ck You Again. And to make the changes stick, I created a 12-week workbook you can grab right here.
Breakup Wednesdays: Recovery Without the BS
Wednesday episodes hit differently.
These are for the men who couldn’t turn it around in time. Who got hit with the “I need space” talk or came home to find their woman emotionally checked out… or physically gone.
I call them Breakup Wednesdays, and they’re all about taking back your mental and emotional frame after a relationship collapses.
You’ll hear me talk about how rejection breeds obsession. How most guys think they want their ex back—but really, they just want to stop hurting.
You'll also hear why chasing her is a losing strategy, and why the real win is building yourself into the man she couldn’t keep up with.
The big takeaway here is this: If she left, it’s because she didn’t feel your presence. If you want her back, begging won’t help. Leveling up will.
For that reason, I offer a free ebook called Fine... Here's How to Get Her Back. It shows you how to stop spiraling, how to move forward, and how to reclaim your frame—whether you want her back or not.
And here's something new—I'm dropping a book in June called Forget That B*tch: A Red Pill Guide to Breakups, available on Kindle and Audible. Pre-order it now to learn why getting over her is the best thing you can do for your mind, your masculinity, and your future.
Frame Fridays: Lock in the Mental Game
On Fridays, we focus on the one thing that makes everything else work—your frame.
Your frame is the internal narrative you live from. It’s how you respond when life—or women—test you. And if you’re in a dead bedroom or recovering from a breakup, your frame is what will determine whether you rise from the ashes or stay stuck in resentment and confusion.
Frame Fridays teach you how to lead from clarity, not neediness. We dig into:
- How to maintain your composure when she pulls away
- How to
spot and pass a shit test without losing your cool
- Why
emotional control is more attractive than six-pack abs
- And how to
rebuild the personal authority you lost trying to please everyone
This isn’t rah-rah motivation. It’s practical mindset reprogramming for men who are ready to lead their lives—not just survive them.
Join the Brotherhood That Gets It
The podcast isn’t just a show—it’s a movement. A brotherhood.
When you tune in to Come On, Man, you’re not alone anymore. You're in the locker room with guys who've been where you are—and came out stronger.
You’ll hear stories of men who revived their marriages. Who let go of toxic exes. Who found their edge again and started living from a place of confidence, clarity, and mission.
Whether you're watching live on YouTube or catching replays on Spotify or Apple Podcasts, every episode is a masterclass in reclaiming your masculine power.
Your Next Step
The fact that you're still reading tells me something—you’re not done.
You’re not done trying. Not done hoping. But deep down, you know that what you’ve been doing isn’t working.
So here’s what I suggest.
Subscribe to Come On, Man. Join the lives. Interact in the chat. Start building the habits and mindsets that make her see you differently—and more importantly, make you see yourself differently.
Grab the free ebook and start understanding why chasing her won’t work, and what will.
Pre-order Forget That B*tch and be ready when it drops in June.
And if you’re still stuck in the dead bedroom cycle, don’t guess. Get Her To F*ck You Again is your tactical blueprint, and the workbook is how you make those changes stick.
Monday. Wednesday. Friday.
Come On, Man isn’t just a podcast—it’s your roadmap to reclaiming your power, your connection, and your life.
Let’s get after it.
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